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Dr. Merle Eugene
Stilwell
September 2, 1932 – June 11, 2023
Dr. Merle Eugene Stilwell, 90 of Indiana, passed away on Sunday, June 11, 2023, at
St. Andrew's Village, Indiana, PA.
Born in 1932 in Mansfield, PA to Albert and Gladys Mudge Stilwell, he graduated
from Mansfield High School in 1950, where he was a three-year letter winner in
basketball and baseball. Offered a contract to play baseball for the Brooklyn Dodgers
organization, Merle opted instead to serve in the military. As an activated
Pennsylvania National Guardsman, he served two years in the Medical Corps in
Germany during the Korean Conflict, ultimately achieving the rank of Sergeant First
Class.
He attended Mansfield State Teachers College from 1952 to 1956, lettering in baseball
and football in each of four seasons and served as the Student Government president
in 1955 and 1956. During his senior year he served as captain of the baseball team,
was named the school's scholar-athlete, received the Kappa Delta Pi Senior Award for
highest scholastic honors, and graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in
Mathematics, English, and History.
Mansfield was also where he met his wife Eleanor Seely Stilwell. They married in
1955 and moved to Huntington Station, Long Island, NY the following year. Merle
began his professional career as a mathematics teacher at Walt Whitman High School
in the South Huntington school district where he taught until 1965. During this period,
he coached nine years of football and three years of baseball as well as earned his
Master of Arts in Teaching degree in 1958 from Columbia University in New York
City.
Merle and Eleanor moved to Ithaca, NY in 1965, where he earned a PhD from Cornell
University in both Mathematics and Education. In 1967 they moved to Indiana, PA,
where he served as a mathematics professor for 23 years at Indiana University of
Pennsylvania and also supervised student teachers. He remained active in athletics
while at IUP, serving as a football coach from 1977 to 1983 and as an academic
advisor to football players until his retirement.
In addition, Merle served as a head coach for Junior Legion baseball teams from 1974
to 1980, twice leading the Indiana Lions to the state playoffs. He was an active
member of Grace United Methodist Church, where he served on several teams and
committees and with Eleanor sang in the Chancel Choir for over 50 years. He also
served as the tenor for the Sprucemen Barbershop Quartet, entertaining countless
audiences in and around Indiana County. He served as chairman of the Indiana
County Red Cross Mass Care Program for 12 years and was a member of both the
Indiana Lions Club and Indiana's Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 1989. He worked
tirelessly at the VFW Golf Course as well as on the conception and building of Grace
Manor in Indiana.
Merle was a 1986 inductee into the Tioga County, PA Sports Hall of Fame and a 2014
Special Honoree of the Indiana County Sports Hall of Fame. His hobbies included
golfing, woodworking, watching the Steelers and Pirates, and providing selfless
service to others. He had a litany of jokes that kept all in earshot in stitches. He also
enjoyed the many dogs who were his and Eleanor's faithful companions.
His children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and friends across the country
brought him great joy. In turn, the joy he brought to them will carry on forever.
Merle is survived by his son, Colonel Douglas Stilwell, USMC (Retired) and wife
Deborah of Oakmont, PA; his daughter, Wendy Stilwell Boehme and husband Les of
Murfreesboro, TN; three grandchildren, Heather Stilwell, Brian Stilwell and wife
Brianna, and Emily Stilwell Hays and husband Ryan, all of Pittsburgh; and three
greatgrandchildren, Haley Stilwell, Henry Hays, and Claire Stilwell. He is also
survived by two brothers, Arthur Stilwell of Painted Post, NY and Donald Stilwell of
Millerton, PA, as well as sister Ninita Jones of Millerton, PA.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by sisters Lois Wilcox and Clarice
Evans, as well as his wife Eleanor.
Friends and family will be received on Thursday, June 29, 2023, from 6-8 PM at the
Bowser-Minich Funeral Home, Indiana. A Celebration of Life Service will be held on
Friday, June 30, 2023, at 11 AM in Grace Church, 712 Church Street, Indiana, with
Pastor Bill Blair and Kathy Mihoerck officiating. Interment will be private.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Traditional Music Fund, Grace Church,
712 Church St., Indiana, PA 15701.
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